Barbara E. Lane, of Greenfield Center, passed away Thursday,
December 5, 2013 of a sudden illness at Saratoga Hospital, Saratoga Springs,
NY. She was 75.
Daughter of the late Stanley and Elsie (Groll) Lake, Barbara
was born on April 8, 1938 in Manhattan, NY.
The Lake family moved to Amityville in 1952 where Barbara
graduated from Amityville Memorial High School in 1955. She worked at Glen Cove
Hospital as a lab technician. She was married to Gary Meyers Ziegenfelder from
1957 to 1978. She then attended Grumman Data Systems where she received her
computer programming certification.
Barbara was a passionate volunteer for the causes she cared
about. She was a Girl Scout leader in her earlier years with her sister Nancy
in Amityville, Long Island. In the 1960’s she modeled positive race relations for young people. She
spent years working for the Okeanos Ocean Research Foundation as a research
assistant. Even as her mobility waned she continued to stay involved by being a
patron of a child through PLAN International USA and supporting the arts at
SPAC. She traveled in the U.S. and abroad and enjoyed reading, especially
philosophy, playing Sudoku, using Facebook, and spending time with her family
and friends. She was an enthusiastic animal lover who loved to watch the
wildlife traveling through her beloved backyard.
Barbara was not only a wonderful wife, mother, grandmother
and aunt to us all, she was a confidant and friend. After listening to our
thoughts she always counseled us to forgive and love each other. Her warm smile
and generous, loving ways will make it difficult for us to say goodbye. Her
best loved recipes such as Shish Kabob, Cornell Salad, Barbeque Flank Steak,
and Parsley Onion Bread will continue to be enjoyed by us for generations to
come.
Barbara was a deeply spiritual woman whose faith in the
wisdom of the universe carried her throughout her life. One of her favorite
sayings was, “I just trust God to give me what I need.” She took great comfort
in nature and private contemplation.
She is survived by her husband, John Lane; her beloved
daughters, Lisa Newkirk (Larry) and Susan Castagna (Joseph); grandsons Larry
Newkirk Jr and Willie Garrett Newkirk. She is also survived by a niece, Erica
Peterson Evans, a nephew, Bryan Thomas Peterson (Jeanine) and great-nephew
Harrison Peterson, “adopted” grandson Anthony Hall, as well as many relations
and longtime friends.
She was predeceased by her sister, Nancy Peterson (Lake)
Memorial Service will be held on Saturday December 14, 2013,
3pm at Compassionate Funeral Care, 402 Maple Avenue (Rte. 9) in Saratoga Springs,
NY 584-4844, where family and friends
are welcomed to call from 2-3pm prior to the service at Compassionate Funeral
Care.
After the service on Saturday all are welcome to join the
family of Barbara for further fellowship and food at the Saratoga Wilton Elks
Lodge 161 directly behind the Funeral Home.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the charity of
your choice or to PLAN International USA, 155 Plan Way, Warwick, RI 02886. - http://www.planusa.org
No comments:
Post a Comment